Once upon a time in a crowded, busy city lived a girl who loved fairies – ‘Rima’. The city never belonged to me. It seemed screeching with people that were very individualistic, greedy, selfish or just too busy. At age 6 trauma hit with the sudden death of my mom. Lucky enough to have a huge home to live in granted by her grandfather, 3 souls started their journey with empty pockets and sorrow filled hearts – Her dad, her elder sister and her. The coming years were nothing like a fairy-tale, they were the perfect chapters of a drama thriller book with massive twists and turns. For my family and people outside all seemed well but the darkness we felt in our hearts, lives and home, only we knew!
While my dad worked hard to make ends meet, my sister and I worked hard to simply live life. Single parent family, major financial troubles and many difficult people around made it hard for an innocent child to believe that life can be fun. I felt deprived of love and burdened with responsibility from a tender age. After school, my sister and I would be cooking, cleaning drawers, cleaning the home, serving guests, walking miles in the sun carrying heavy grocery bags (back then in India groceries were sold by vendors on the roads at specific spots in the city). When puberty arrived, I knew not what it means to be a woman except shame. Not only was I growing up in a city where men openly eve teased and even touched women in public travels but even my religion demanded separate treatment of men and women. Men seemed to have a much more superior place and ‘privileges’ than women. I wondered what was life truly about…
Life was hard. Adults in the family who one could typically trust, seemed very judgmental, controlling and biased. It felt like feeling rejection, shame, embarrassment, negativity, low self-worth and a sense of meaninglessness was all life had to offer. There were times when I could not understand my father’s frustration or why other adults were so greedy, selfish or apathetic? I remember when after much searching, we found a new, talented helper at home. Within a few days my neighbor aunt had paid her more money and taken her away from us, we were little kids not even teenagers, cooking, studying, going to bed without a hug or a story. There were times I hid the shame I felt in wearing old clothes and used bags, many times I wished I had more than just ONE friend and amongst it all, my lonely heart missed my mom’s hug. She wondered – what does it feel like to have a mom? I cried long nights in literal darkness craving for just some unconditional love.
Life went on with its good and bad experiences. With time, great wisdom, strength and talents found me. By my mid 20s I began to realize what a blessing life had been to me. Owing to all difficult times, I now knew how to easily gauge people and their characters, I knew how to earn and save money very early in life, I had the courage to stand up against men who acted wrong, my will-power surfed high with courage and strength. Because I felt alone in the darkest times, I had unshakable rapport with God. By age 18, my inner calling was true and clear – “My life-purpose is to help thousands of women and children find their internal power and rise above the atrocities put towards them.” Clearly, my life had a purpose that was led by God. Over all the tears, pain, sorrow and loneliness, I had learnt one very important lesson rather early in life – BE KIND and COMPASSIONATE, BE FIRM against INJUSTICE yet HUMBLE no matter what!
That took me to Masters in Psychology from Mumbai. My passion for Psychology reflected in my performance – an Ace Student! With the help of my teachers, therapists and guides, I also thoroughly worked on myself for 2.5 non-stop years. I confronted my deep seated insecurities and childhood perceptions. What blossomed was a new spirit, filled with wisdom and maturity. Life moved in its own direction over the years and having moved continents post marriage, I did not get to pursue Psychology due to its lack of prevalence in Africa. My career came crashing down but eventually that helped me grow one step stronger into finding new opportunities by fighting all odds in a seemingly primitive city of Tanzania. There began the journey of a Writer in 2009… from The Citizen newspaper to blog posts and even IN-FLIGHT MAGAZINES. Meanwhile, the news of being a mother soon were thrilling, even though I did not know the severe post-partum depression and health problems that were to follow.
…Then all of a sudden life had a surprise. I was shipped to USA for a 5 month tour that would never end! Yes, I did not know that my tour bags to USA in 2011 Summer was the launch of a new fate; I would never return to Africa! With hopes as high as New York sky scrapers, I slowly came to realize that all that glitters is not Gold. On my dependent H4 visa, I wasn’t allowed to work. This was my career’s 2nd death! The severe culture shock combined with the shock that I could no more utilize my Masters in Psychology degree in USA led me to depression once again. We were bankrupt, starting life from the very basics with not even $10 to buy a toy for my daughter. How could I then imagine paying $40,000 to restudy Masters in USA?!
One day google became my God and life’s curious steps drew her to SWIHA. The one door which had the key to many others! By Aug. 2014 I had graduated as a Transformational Life-Coach with a wonderful transformation within myself, all well within reach of $2000!
Even though I still awaited my work visa, I felt like a TREE had grown in her backyard overnight! Two years later, in Dec 2016, my green card arrived! I set out one step at a time, some with fear, some with confidence to work after 10 long years! Alongside I found a wonderful Life-Coach who helped me gain much personal freedom and self-worth! I transformed my body from 181 lbs to 137 lbs within a year and began realizing how in my marriage I had only ‘submitted’ to another man!
Life continued with its opportunities of growth and the soon I found myself in the flow of Earth’s ascension. My clairvoyance and empathic abilities began to blow out of proportion and found myself more and more eager to support ‘moms’ that feel overwhelmed, underappreciated and undervalued. My women clients are typically those who are looking for emotional independence, higher self-worth, healing from depression or anxiety, have marital problems, seeking health related help, eager to find more meaning in life or needing more prosperity in life.
Besides supporting conscious living in moms, I work as a paraprofessional aiding Special Needs Kids (Autism, ADD, etc.) in their emotional, behavioral and academic growth and runs Character Building & Skill Training Classes for children of all ages.
Rima is an inborn Empath, Telepath and is growing her Clairvoyance. She channels naturally when she gives Angel Card Readings. Rima is on her journey of Ascension with her Twin Soul and has a lot to offer who are on the same path as her or to anyone who seeks more from life than just the mundane, day to day routines.
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